We human beings are anxious to know about our future rather than being focused on what is happening all along us. We consider the problems to be bigger than ourselves, if a certain thing does not happen the way we want. The reality is that the universe has its own way of depicting certain events. The chain of events after a time makes sense and you come to know that why certain event has been the part of your life.

With a certain problem there comes a solution. A solution that leads you and your life sets in a different direction. Never ever give up in any circumstances as the belief matters. As someone reading this might think that why then the bad things happen to certain people. There are several Whys and Buts that block your path. Remember over thinking is a problem get rid of it before it corrodes your thoughts and you lose the meaning of life to it. The problems are for humans and so are the solutions. Problems can be of any sort. You may categorize some as big and others as small. The truth is that every problem is as big as we make it. The more you fuss about it the bigger it gets.

There are four phases of a certain difficult situation.
Phase 1: Terrified/Sad
Phase 2: Confused/Frustrated
Phase 3: Scared
Phase 4: Hopelessness

In a certain difficult situation, as we human beings get terrified, confused, scared and hopeless as well. Whenever you go through these phases remember that’s its natural. The last phase is the most dangerous one. Save yourself and never lose yourself in it. Give yourself space to pass all those phases. But also remember that you have to go through these phases at a faster pace, don’t stick to them. Get out as fast as you can. Bring up the hope and courage to pull yourself together. You have better things to do in life rather than snuggling up in your bed or weeping in showers. Just give yourself the importance you give to your problems. The more you realize your worth and power, the more you will be able to cope a certain situation. The thing is that you have been selected by God to be in a certain situation so believe that you have the ability to pass the test.

Summing up remember that God has his own way of making things happen at its own pace. What is good will last and what is bad will leave your life whether you want it or not. The things happen according to Gods will and we can only think as much as our brain can hold. Believe that these storms will bring out the best of you. You will rediscover your abilities and at the end the whole scenario will end up in a gain. So in whatever phase you are, follow these steps to bring yourself together.

Recovery phase 1: Accept the problem
Recovery phase 2: No negativity
Recovery phase 3: Believe in your worth
Recovery phase 4: Strong Faith
Recovery phase 5: Solution seeking
Recovery phase 6: Congratulate yourself to overcome the problem/issue.

After the whole thing has passed you will feel stronger and better version of you. The more satisfied and complete you feel the more is what you can deliver towards others in your life. Broken people can never help others it’s the complete ones who can help out. The complete ones are not those who have not faced any difficulty but those who pass the difficult time and stand out. So be a complete and satisfied one so you can serve the people around you. And only you can make the difference.

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